6 Things You Should Know Before You Age 30

Many people have their own definitions for success in life. And, on this reasons, some end up failing because of their wrong definition. Or, they even succeed but lack awareness of the real success keeps them still constrained by success. Some define success as having a lot of money, respect, lovers, etc. Actually, the real definition of success in life is achieving the set goals, no matter what goals they are (Cherry, 2020). Simply saying, nothing should be called success in your life by its nature, instead, something is your success because you have planned to achieve it in your life.

So, here are things you should know before age of 30 for you to live a success life.

1.      You can do everything you want

2.      Hang around successful people to be successful too

3.      You are responsible for your actions

4.      You can’t learn everything from school

5.      Schooling is not the base of your life

6.      Life keeps changing, change your mind accordingly

1)      1. You can do everything you want

Probably, you want something because you have seen or heard about it from somewhere. And, the fact that you saw/heard it means that there was someone who did it. Though we human beings are somewhat different when it comes to personalities, we all are able. What someone did, is doable for you. Give it a try. If it’s something coming to your mind, believe me, the fact that you can think proves you can do it. Don’t reject it, give it a go. By doing this, you will flourish (Ellis, n.d.). 

2)      2. Hang around successful people to be successful too

      The people you work with are great influencers on your life. You will consult them when about to take an action, you copy and imitate their behaviors, you will tend to like what they life, and so forth. Cautious! Not everyone is worth being close to you when you want to be successful. Some people are good set backers. They will never encourage; they will never give you real feedback. They will never guide you. So why working all with such people? Differently, successful people will be a guide to you way forward, support you, advise you and they will always encourage to work hard. Connect with such people for you to progress  (Ellis, n.d.).

3)      3. You are responsible for your actions

People whom we find in our environment do play a role in some actions that we take. This is because, there is value that they have in our lives. These people include parents, teachers and close friends. They sometimes advise us, give us instructions when applicable. All this is fine. However, you still need to be accountable of what to do and reject. None is your heart from the above people. And, to tell the truth, your heart is the best friend, adviser and all that goodness people might have towards you. So make sure that you always stay accountable of what you. Be in control (Ellis, n.d.).

4)      4. You can’t learn everything from school

It is important to go to school. If you are pursuing studies, really, have a courage. Don’t ever lose your time. However, believe, you will not learn everything should know from school. And, if I am not wrong, from this blog, you can see something you were not told at school. This means, be resourcefulness, be a researcher. There are many things that worthy knowing and you are the one to go the miles. See what skills will be sought-after in the coming future and learn such on your own (Ellis, n.d.).

5)      5. Schooling is not the base of your life

The point here is, not everyone who attending a school is successful. Not everyone who didn’t attend school is unsuccessful. Schooling is one way of piles of ways to be successful. If you didn’t get a chance to attend school, or you got it but it was hard for you, don’t worry. God blessed you with natural knowledge and capabilities that he gives every human being. In addition to this, there are many other ways to learn something that can make you succeed. Leave out the worry of not having schooled. Explore your capabilities and make them your top investment.

6)      6. Life keeps changing, change your mind accordingly

Life is a dependent variable to time and some other factors. It changes as time changes. Assuredly, you need to change your mind as time changes. Giving you a real life example, you might be planning to build a house in Kigali City, and the government gives out an article saying that no more buildings in the city. All building should be in growing cities like Kamembe and Ruhengeri. Truly, the good idea hear will be to change your mind. Time has change and you need to change your mind. You have no way to build a house in Kigali, but you have a way to build a house in other several cities. Change your mind when necessary and keep pushing things which in reality can’t move.

 

Wrapping up, bear in mind that life is in your hands. You can achieve what thing you are ambitious about doing. Schooling helps us succeed but it is not the norm.

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References

Cherry, K. (2020, March 12). 6 Steps for Success in Life. Retrieved from https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-be-successful-in-life-4165743#:~:text=Your%20individual%20definition%20of%20what,whatever%20those%20goals%20may%20be.

Ellis, C. (n.d.). 25 Things You Must Know by the Time You Turn 30. Retrieved from https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/25-things-you-must-know-the-time-you-turn-30.html